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181: 9 Reasons Good Employees Quit (And How Great Managers Stop It) | Damon Lembi

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June 20, 2025

Release Date: June 18

You don’t lose great people overnight—it happens slowly, then all at once.

In this solo episode, Damon Lembi gets real about the 9 most common reasons high performers quit—and what you can do today to retain them. From bad bosses and burnout to compensation, culture, and career stagnation, Damon shares hard-earned lessons from decades of building (and rebuilding) teams at Learnit.

If you’re a current or aspiring manager, this episode is your playbook for retention, engagement, and trust.

What You’ll Learn:

  • 9 of the most common reasons top performers leave
  • Why overloading your best people backfires
  • How bad bosses drive silent attrition
  • Why investing in growth and development keeps people loyal
  • The "VIP curse" and how it leads to burnout
  • What happens when culture rewards underperformance
  • Why promoting great individual contributors can go wrong
  • How to create flexibility without losing performance
  • The power of stretch projects, team building, and autonomy
  • What Damon offers to every listener (hint: it's generous)

In This Episode:

  • 00:00 – Why top talent leaves: the real reasons
  • 00:35 – Reason 1: Bad bosses and broken trust
  • 01:00 – Reason 2: Lack of appreciation and recognition
  • 01:30 – Reason 3: Burnout and the VIP curse
  • 02:00 – Reason 4: No growth or advancement path
  • 02:30 – Reason 5: No investment in professional development
  • 03:00 – Reason 6: Toxic or unchallenging team cultures
  • 03:30 – Reason 7: Misaligned promotions (ICs into managers)
  • 04:00 – Reason 8: Lack of flexibility and autonomy
  • 04:30 – Reason 9: Compensation and pay inequity
  • 05:00 – What to do: Invest in growth and give them ownership
  • 06:00 – Be flexible: one-size-fits-all doesn’t work
  • 06:30 – Find their passion, and play to strengths
  • 07:00 – Team building and connection matter more than ever
  • 07:30 – Retention bonuses (and when to use them)
  • 08:00 – Final reflection: High performers want purpose, trust, growth
  • 08:30 – Damon’s giveaway: Free book and 60 days of team training

Resources & Mentions:

  • Damon’s book:
  • Learnit course: Delegate to Scale Your Impact
  • Gallup: Why Your Boss Is the Reason People Quit
  • OC Tanner Study on Recognition and Retention
  • Pew Research: Reasons Americans Quit Their Jobs in 2021
  • LinkedIn Learning: 94% Would Stay Longer with Learning Opportunities

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