208: The 3 Overlooked Skills That Turn Average Managers into Great Leaders | Damon Lembi
Release Date:Β
August 27, 2025
Release Date:Β Aug 27
In this purposeful solo episode of The Learn-It-All Podcast, host Damon Lembi pulls back the curtain on three of the most undervalued leadership skills: the art of consistently showing up, the power of pausing under pressure, and the critical ability to let go and move forward. Damon combines personal anecdotes, practical advice, and frameworks from top experts to help leaders at any level build the resilience and trust needed for high-performing teamsβespecially in todayβs fast-moving, AI-first environment. Whether youβre a new manager or an aspiring executive, youβll leave with actionable takeaways for leading with presence, poise, and purpose.
What Youβll Learn:
Why showing upβeven when you donβt want toβis the backbone of true leadership
How βthe pauseβ can defuse tension and change the trajectory of tough conversations
The difference between letting go and avoidanceβand how leaders can move past mistakes without grudges
Simple, science-backed practices to reset after conflicts and stay present for your team
How carrying unresolved issues undermines culture and drains team performance
Real-world rituals Damon uses to keep his promises and be consistently reliable
In This Episode:
00:00 β What most people get wrong about leadership
00:30 β Why the small, invisible habits build real trust
01:00 β Skill 1: Show upβeven when you donβt feel like it
01:45 β Why inconsistency breaks trust and erodes culture
02:20 β Damonβs example: Recording at 7AM on a Sunday
03:10 β Anchor to purpose when motivation fades
03:45 β Skill 2: Practice the pause in tough moments
04:15 β What the body tells you before you snap
04:45 β Damonβs tip from Cynthia Kane: One breath + ground yourself
05:30 β Why excited leaders need the pause too
06:00 β The power of slowing the energy in a room
06:30 β Skill 3: Learn to let go (without avoiding or resenting)
07:00 β Mike Robbinsβ framework: Let it go or deal with it
07:30 β Why option 3 (resentment) kills culture
08:00 β Resetting between meetings and relationships08:30 β Recap: Show up, pause, let go
09:00 β ΒιΆΉΉϋΆ³΄«Γ½ekly challenge + free gift: 45 days of Learnit training
09:30 β Final reminder: Apply it. Donβt just consume it
About Damon Lembi
Damon Lembi is a 3x bestselling author, the host of The Learn-It-All Podcast, and CEO of Learnit β a live learning platform that has upskilled over 2 million people. Drawing from his prior baseball career, Damon brings an athleteβs perspective to leadership. Through his journey, he has gained invaluable insights into what helps organizations grow, how great leaders learn, and why learn-it-all companies outpace their competitors every time.