224: Stop Recognizing Performance. Start Appreciating People | Mike Robbins
Release Date:Β
October 6, 2025
Release Date: Oct 4
The best cultures arenβt built on paperβtheyβre fueled by authentic connection, candid conversations, and relentless self-growth.
In this energizing episode of The Learn-It-All Podcast, host Damon Lembi reconnects with former baseball rival turned bestselling author and executive coach, Mike Robbins. Together, they dig into what separates good teams from great onesβon the field and in the boardroom. Mike opens up about the power of appreciation over recognition, why embracing imposter syndrome can actually signal real growth, and how leaders build trust (and credibility) by showing up authenticallyβand not dodging those βsweaty palmβ conversations. Expect memorable sports stories, practical mindset tools, and play-by-plays for handling conflict, envy, and high-stakes leadership moments.
From clubhouse chemistry to corporate culture, this episode is loaded with actionable takeaways for anyone leading teams, navigating transitions, or just ready to grow.
What Youβll Learn:
Why appreciationβnot just recognitionβcreates lasting engagement and trust
How βsweaty palmβ conversations unlock deeper relationships and resolve hidden conflict
What to do when imposter syndrome strikes (and why it means youβre growing)
How to turn envy and internal competition into fuel for self-improvement
Mikeβs honesty formula for leadership: Honesty minus self-righteousness plus vulnerability
Practical exercises for authentic appreciation and connection within teams
In This Episode:
00:00 β The power of letting go and direct conflict resolution
00:30 β ΒιΆΉΉϋΆ³΄«Γ½lcome and Mikeβs surprising baseball rivalry origin story
01:49 β What truly makes great teams stand out
04:07 β The leadership mistake of speed over connection
06:03 β Mikeβs baseball journey, career-ending injury, and leadership insights
10:56 β Playing for team goals vs. personal goals (and why it matters)
12:02 β Navigating internal competition and organizational βpolitickingβ
15:10 β Mikeβs first pro spring training, scarcity mindset, and rooting for others
20:42 β Reframing envy for professional growth
23:30 β Courage, vulnerability, and how Stanford teammates inspired Mike
27:41 β Damon's turning point: Choosing the harder path and what he learned
29:36 β Why imposter syndrome is a sign you're on the right track
32:24 β The honesty equation: authenticity, vulnerability, and humility
36:41 β The difference between recognition and appreciation (with stories)
44:01 β Why leaders are always on stage and how appreciation impacts culture
47:25 β Team appreciation exercise and why it matters
53:29 β Navigating difficult conversations: permission, vulnerability, and intent
58:38 β Two options for conflict: let go or resolve it fully
1:02:30 β Top leadership challenges todayβand why real connection matters
About Mike Robbins
Mike Robbins is a former professional baseball player turned bestselling author, keynote speaker, and executive coach with over 25 years of experience helping organizations build trust, authenticity, and winning cultures. After a career-ending arm injury led him from the pitcherβs mound to Silicon Valley startups, Mike became a sought-after speaker and author of five books, including "ΒιΆΉΉϋΆ³΄«Γ½'re All In This Together." His expertise has been tapped by companies like Google, Microsoft, and the San Francisco Giants, and heβs renowned for translating high-performance team skills from sports to business. Learn more at mike-robbins.com and connect on LinkedIn.